Breakfast with a porn star

I meet some wonderful people on my adventures down the rabbit hole. This morning, I had breakfast with a male porn actor. Far from what you might be imagining, we were fully clothed and talking politics and prejudice in the sex industry. I'd invite you to follow the link: https://www.opendemocracy.net/uk/jonathan-shamir/race-porn-and-education-will-uk-s-2020-sex-education-update-rise-to-challenge Which is highly relevant and… Continue reading Breakfast with a porn star

Should I?

Toying with the notion of writing a very controversial post. Shall I?

The woman behind the mask

One of the most wonderful things about a big city, and London in particular, is the general anonymity. Though the swing scene and kink scene seems such a small, incestuous world that the same people pop up over and over, you can stroll through most streets secure in the knowledge that no a soul knows… Continue reading The woman behind the mask

All in a tangle? Rope and shibari wanted

I'm looking to do research on shibari, rope play and tying. If you live close to London and you have expertise, particularly as a rigger, but also as a rope bunny, or a strong interest, please message me as I would like to talk to you for this blog Xx

Broken doll: white knights, illusions and delusions

We look in the mirror after our world is shaken. We see a cracked, broken thing stare back. Unrecognisable. Lost. Altered. Unfixable.

‘Hi, I followed you from Tinder. Want to meet?’ -does flirting on Instagram work?

I recently made an Instagram account for this blog, as part of my incredibly gradual takeover of social media (I doubt Zuckerberg and the Kardashians are worried). It seemed like a fun way to make small, quick and silly posts, find some new readers and participate in a 3 second, highly visual culture. There are… Continue reading ‘Hi, I followed you from Tinder. Want to meet?’ -does flirting on Instagram work?

The Pronoun Paradox: limitations of language in a non binary world

As a writer I'm often frustrated by the inability of the English language to provide simple gender non-specific pronouns that flow nicely in narrative and include everyone, instead falling back on the vague yet grammatically incorrect 'they'. My primary school English teacher would turn in her grave. 'They,' She shouts in my mind each time,… Continue reading The Pronoun Paradox: limitations of language in a non binary world

The Unmannerly Ghost: Halloween Tales of the Dread Phenomenon

This is the work of the unmannerly ghost, snatching them away just as things looked set to get good between you.  This foul, supernatural fiend can appear at any time, though usually, it's a demon of the early stages. 

Ex on the scene: turf wars and brittle smiles

Halloween is nearly upon us, and what better time to talk about zombies? Zombies and demons. Zombies and demons and how we transform into monsters. When your ex pops back up on the scene, it's always going to be a kick in the teeth. So how do you avoid pissing on each other's shoes? There… Continue reading Ex on the scene: turf wars and brittle smiles

Event organiser?

Do you host a swing or kink event you want reviewed on Unicornhunting.blog?

Hangin’ rope

Hangin’ rope https://astraysjournal.wordpress.com/2018/09/07/hangin-rope/ — Read on astraysjournal.wordpress.com/2018/09/07/hangin-rope/ Written by a beautiful friend of mine about her spiritual entry into the world of shibari rope tying

Events review: Friday night at Future Parties as a Single Woman

The lower face and upper torso of a woman with dark hair, tattooed arms and a white shirt with a leather harness around the shoulders and black bra

The Future Parties rules are simple, and work really well:  Absolutely everything requires explicit consent.  Never interrupt a 'scene'.  Don't behave like a knob.

Sex party hosting tips

Today, I have been having fun. Today I have been posting tips and hacks for sex party hosting to instagram and Pinterest

Sex unicorn or handmaid- Which are you?

Clearly, The Handmaid's Tale has absolutely nothing to do with the swing scene and unicorn hunting.  Absolutely not.  In fact, let's take a look at just how different being a Unicorn is from being a Handmaid...

Events review: Friday night at Le Boudoir as a single lady

My friend came to lose her LB virginity with our group on the Friday, and as she walked in she said 'I love it already!' There was a subtle exotic perfume in the foyer, white feathered lampshades and a certain promise of sensual exploits to be had beyond the next door. 

Unicorns and How To Hunt Them – the book

Well, my baby ducklings, the Kindle version of the book is live from today and all ready for you to read! Buy on Kindle or read free on Kindle unlimited, http://bit.ly/UnicornHunt Illustrated paperback due in November xxx

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MMF Misadventures of Naughty Nick

Guest blog by Naughty Nick: My only negative experiences in this lifestyle have been with couples, male and female; these have been so bizarre and harrowing that I literally refuse to entertain the idea of a meet with a couple.  The simple MMF is not so simple at all and is an emotional bundle of… Continue reading MMF Misadventures of Naughty Nick

Hunting unicorns

A no nonsense guide on how to bag the elusive spare F (aka unicorn, aka hot single bisexual female) for your fantasy threesome and hunt solo or in pairs for the highest success rate.

Any hole’s a goal: F*ck boys and the inexplicable rise of toxic male promiscuity

One has to question his motivation in fucking anything that moves. Low self esteem? Something to prove? Pathological dissociation? Is it directed at devaluing you personally?

Creepy wanky watchers

your partner(s) are getting down to business, clothing coming off and sex fantasies all ready to happen.  Then, looming in from the shadows comes 'that guy'.  He's staring silently, looking like a supervillain's henchman, or smiling maniacally, all alone.  He's standing a little too close for comfort, cock in hand, stroking himself off to your frolics.

Couples’ profiles: what the single women see

So, you want to make a couples profile.  And why not?  Declare your intentions, do some universal ordering, and bag your goal, right?  

Unicorns and how to hunt them: the book

Something new is coming from Lost Bajan... from blog writer Alice Hunter... your guide to landing the perfect threesome, like a boss! UNICORNS AND HOW TO HUNT THEM. Coming to Amazon Kindle August 09

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Soundtrack to your life?

I had the privilege tonight to see the beautiful and compelling Sabrina Chap play live at the amazing Bar Wotever in Vauxhall. Have you ever heard a song and felt like it should be the opening to your movie? Here's one for you, my lovely libertine ladies. What would be the soundtrack to the current… Continue reading Soundtrack to your life?

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M vs F : Are sexually liberated women empowered or stigmatized?

In an age of new female sexual liberation, are women taking back their feminine power in their own eyes, and the eyes of men?  Or was granny onto something all along- that when you explore your sexuality as a woman, you will be judged for it by the opposite sex?

The stable and the freezer: new terms of modern dating everyone should be aware of

The stable and the freezer: new terms of modern dating everyone should be aware of