Xmas on the kink scene: the unwanted gift

These are the shadows of things that have been- that they are what they are, do not blame me ~Ghost of Christmas Past, The Muppets' Christmas Carol What is a bad Christmas gift on the kink scene? A marabou trimmed red mankini? A latex corset six sizes too big? Unfortunately there can be far worse… Continue reading Xmas on the kink scene: the unwanted gift

The Naked Interviews: Interview with a Porn Actor

there's a risk of demonizing certain kinds of porn and certain people, making wide generalizations and assumptions about the whole industry and the ethics of it, when really it's pretty complicated and diverse. But as a consumer, 'pay for your porn' is the most important thing.

Peeping Inside of Unicorns

book unicorns and how to hunt them: how to score threesomes likje a pro

preview the ebook Unicorns and How to Hunt Them, guidance on the swinger scene, threesomes and unicorn hunting

The woman behind the mask

One of the most wonderful things about a big city, and London in particular, is the general anonymity. Though the swing scene and kink scene seems such a small, incestuous world that the same people pop up over and over, you can stroll through most streets secure in the knowledge that no a soul knows… Continue reading The woman behind the mask

All in a tangle? Rope and shibari wanted

I'm looking to do research on shibari, rope play and tying. If you live close to London and you have expertise, particularly as a rigger, but also as a rope bunny, or a strong interest, please message me as I would like to talk to you for this blog Xx

Broken doll: white knights, illusions and delusions

We look in the mirror after our world is shaken. We see a cracked, broken thing stare back. Unrecognisable. Lost. Altered. Unfixable.

The Unmannerly Ghost: Halloween Tales of the Dread Phenomenon

This is the work of the unmannerly ghost, snatching them away just as things looked set to get good between you.  This foul, supernatural fiend can appear at any time, though usually, it's a demon of the early stages. 

Events review: Friday night at Future Parties as a Single Woman

The lower face and upper torso of a woman with dark hair, tattooed arms and a white shirt with a leather harness around the shoulders and black bra

The Future Parties rules are simple, and work really well:  Absolutely everything requires explicit consent.  Never interrupt a 'scene'.  Don't behave like a knob.

Sex party hosting tips

Today, I have been having fun. Today I have been posting tips and hacks for sex party hosting to instagram and Pinterest

Unicorn interviews 5: The BDSM unicorn (extract)

Interview with a BDSM & sex unicorn. Insight on swinging, approaches, pickup and how to catch one.