Unicorn interviews 5: The BDSM unicorn (extract)

So, what brought you to the scene originally?
It’s one of those things where you can look back and go, ‘oh yeah, those adverts from the sixties that are horribly sexist, with some housewife being spanked because she bought the wrong coffee…’ I remember being fascinated by them, I mean I couldn’t have described it, and I couldn’t have told you that that was what was interesting, but I do remember that there was something fascinating about it. I’ve always had quite vanilla partners, and there’s only so far you can push people, when it’s not their thing. Also without feeling like you are doing it wrong somehow.  Since my late teens when people started to talk about it, I knew what I had to do was different, and I knew I was getting it wrong. Because, you know, nice girls stay at home, and there’s all that kind of attitude still, so I just figured I had to tone it down a little and keep quiet, and do the normal thing….

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The interview with a BDSM unicorn is a positive account of a woman’s journey from a conventional religious upbringing into the world of kink, sex-positive dating, threesomes and polyamory. The kink scene and swing scene do overlap, but have some major differences in the way they work. Expectations, couple dynamics, styles of play and objectives are not the same as swinging, for the most part. The BDSM unicorn tells us of her early journey into this world and how she views it.

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