Are You Single? The question with no meaning

Within the first 3 questions I usually get asked, there is one that always comes up: Are you single?

Sociopathy and the swing scene: a non-narcissist’s guide to self defence against vampires

Any place that markets itself as a centre of personal wish fulfilment is going to draw in people who want something for themselves. The more they are paying, the higher the hurdles to enter, the greater their expectations of achieving their goals are.

Hangin’ rope

Hangin’ rope https://astraysjournal.wordpress.com/2018/09/07/hangin-rope/ — Read on astraysjournal.wordpress.com/2018/09/07/hangin-rope/ Written by a beautiful friend of mine about her spiritual entry into the world of shibari rope tying

Any hole’s a goal: F*ck boys and the inexplicable rise of toxic male promiscuity

One has to question his motivation in fucking anything that moves. Low self esteem? Something to prove? Pathological dissociation? Is it directed at devaluing you personally?

Creepy wanky watchers

your partner(s) are getting down to business, clothing coming off and sex fantasies all ready to happen. 

Then, looming in from the shadows comes 'that guy'.  He's staring silently, looking like a supervillain's henchman, or smiling maniacally, all alone.  He's standing a little too close for comfort, cock in hand, stroking himself off to your frolics.