Sex unicorn or handmaid- Which are you?

Clearly, The Handmaid's Tale has absolutely nothing to do with the swing scene and unicorn hunting.  Absolutely not.  In fact, let's take a look at just how different being a Unicorn is from being a Handmaid...

Events review: Friday night at Le Boudoir as a single lady

My friend came to lose her LB virginity with our group on the Friday, and as she walked in she said 'I love it already!' There was a subtle exotic perfume in the foyer, white feathered lampshades and a certain promise of sensual exploits to be had beyond the next door. 

Unicorns and How To Hunt Them – the book

Well, my baby ducklings, the Kindle version of the book is live from today and all ready for you to read! Buy on Kindle or read free on Kindle unlimited, http://bit.ly/UnicornHunt Illustrated paperback due in November xxx

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MMF Misadventures of Naughty Nick

Guest blog by Naughty Nick: My only negative experiences in this lifestyle have been with couples, male and female; these have been so bizarre and harrowing that I literally refuse to entertain the idea of a meet with a couple.  The simple MMF is not so simple at all and is an emotional bundle of… Continue reading MMF Misadventures of Naughty Nick

Hunting unicorns

A no nonsense guide on how to bag the elusive spare F (aka unicorn, aka hot single bisexual female) for your fantasy threesome and hunt solo or in pairs for the highest success rate.

Any hole’s a goal: F*ck boys and the inexplicable rise of toxic male promiscuity

One has to question his motivation in fucking anything that moves. Low self esteem? Something to prove? Pathological dissociation? Is it directed at devaluing you personally?

Creepy wanky watchers

your partner(s) are getting down to business, clothing coming off and sex fantasies all ready to happen.  Then, looming in from the shadows comes 'that guy'.  He's staring silently, looking like a supervillain's henchman, or smiling maniacally, all alone.  He's standing a little too close for comfort, cock in hand, stroking himself off to your frolics.

Couples’ profiles: what the single women see

So, you want to make a couples profile.  And why not?  Declare your intentions, do some universal ordering, and bag your goal, right?  

Unicorns and how to hunt them: the book

Something new is coming from Lost Bajan... from blog writer Alice Hunter... your guide to landing the perfect threesome, like a boss! UNICORNS AND HOW TO HUNT THEM. Coming to Amazon Kindle August 09

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Soundtrack to your life?

I had the privilege tonight to see the beautiful and compelling Sabrina Chap play live at the amazing Bar Wotever in Vauxhall. Have you ever heard a song and felt like it should be the opening to your movie? Here's one for you, my lovely libertine ladies. What would be the soundtrack to the current… Continue reading Soundtrack to your life?

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M vs F : Are sexually liberated women empowered or stigmatized?

In an age of new female sexual liberation, are women taking back their feminine power in their own eyes, and the eyes of men?  Or was granny onto something all along- that when you explore your sexuality as a woman, you will be judged for it by the opposite sex?

The stable and the freezer: new terms of modern dating everyone should be aware of

The stable and the freezer: new terms of modern dating everyone should be aware of

Unicorn interviews 6: The Poly Unicorn (extract)

to actively seek out a polyamorous unicorn right from the start, to love and cuddle and have that extra spicy excitement with from time to time?  Someone to bring into your relationship, a lovely extra addition to that which you already have?

Organising your own party (extract)

Hosting is by no means a compulsory part of your evolution as a libertine or swinger, however it does often come up as an idea in the early to mid stages of your development.  With these issues in mind, you may be able to pull off a truly stunning event

Really bad approaches

Couples and single guys, please note the calibre of your competition. *Some have been recreated, but the conversations are all real, and are from myself and single girls I know personally.

Getting your partner to agree to a threesome (extract)

Threesomes: how to ask your partner? Basic approaches to use

Unicorn interviews 5: The BDSM unicorn (extract)

Interview with a BDSM & sex unicorn. Insight on swinging, approaches, pickup and how to catch one.

Fab Swingers app as a single female (extract)

Following the Feeld review, I've started doing reviews of the different apps with regards to MFF potential.  No such enterprise could be complete without FABS.  To be fair, it's not my first crack at this app.  I set up a new profile at midnight on this fine Monday, listing myself as a single female and… Continue reading Fab Swingers app as a single female (extract)

Feeld as a single female (extract)

Dating apps have come a long way.  For every niche interest, there seems to be one.  Or ten.  A few days ago, I joined Feeld as a single female.  Lest you think I was performing some sort of seductive trickery, allow me to clarify.  My profile picture was an overexposed silhouette of my face with… Continue reading Feeld as a single female (extract)

Metamorphosis isn’t just for unicorns (Extract)

Having a very strong appreciation of her, and not thinking of her just as a fantasy for your relationship, is really what is important in ultimately meeting and finding someone.  We just now speak to people, find about about them and then see if it goes anywhere.

The sparkle to draw the unicorns in (extract)

We just find more and more single girls approach us and in normal settings - not just sex parties.  I would say most weekends a girl approaches us with the intention of some mischief.  My other half is very striking though, she is 6 foot - 6'4 or 6'5 in heels.  When we are out we are clearly having a good time.  I think that's the main attraction.

Unicorn interviews 4 (extract)

Do you feel sex parties and swinging fit in with feminist ideals? Totally.  It's about what I want to do on equal terms with men.  I feel sexually equal at sex parties - I don't have to pretend to be the stereotype of a girl who is 'hard to get' or is 'prey' for a man. Do you think you are perceived differently from 'vanilla' women? Yes- I think men on the scene would not consider me as a girlfriend as I am too equal sexually. Men don't want that in a partner usually.  There is a double standard, that's for sure.

Sheep turned wolf turned shepherd My story: how you know I’m not talking out of my ass. (extract)

the smug bio. Yet I cannot tell you the ultimate answer without taking you through a bit of my journey, so I will skip the boring bits and be sure to include lots of sex and useful advice for you.

Unicorn interviews 3 (extract)

This really depends on the people - I have no favourite, couples, three singles, friends, whatever..... it is all good if everyone knows what their role is and communicates what they want - and being a filthy minx or tomcat helps too! People who give in and let the sensation and experience take over and stop worrying about how they look, or what the other one is up to. 

Tainted horn and bareback heart: who is exterminating the unicorns? (full chapter)

What kills the sex unicorns off?  What is the touch of their horn that brings them death and destroys their magic?