Xmas on the kink scene: the unwanted gift

These are the shadows of things that have been- that they are what they are, do not blame me ~Ghost of Christmas Past, The Muppets' Christmas Carol What is a bad Christmas gift on the kink scene? A marabou trimmed red mankini? A latex corset six sizes too big? Unfortunately there can be far worse… Continue reading Xmas on the kink scene: the unwanted gift

Paperback unicorns and FREE ebook

So in the rest of what's left of 2018 I'll be working on bringing out the paperback. I want it to have a little something extra for you! As well as working with a wonderful illustrator, I'd like to give you some extra, previously unreleased content. In fact, I'd like to grant some wishes. I… Continue reading Paperback unicorns and FREE ebook

Cougar bait: sorry ma’am, does your son have ID? Younger men with older women; why is it taboo?

beautiful red haired woman looks at the camera

'An older woman': Leopard print, red stilettos and a voracious sexual appetite manifest in the psyche. Why is there such stigma attached to an age gap?

All in a tangle? Rope and shibari wanted

I'm looking to do research on shibari, rope play and tying. If you live close to London and you have expertise, particularly as a rigger, but also as a rope bunny, or a strong interest, please message me as I would like to talk to you for this blog Xx

The Pronoun Paradox: limitations of language in a non binary world

As a writer I'm often frustrated by the inability of the English language to provide simple gender non-specific pronouns that flow nicely in narrative and include everyone, instead falling back on the vague yet grammatically incorrect 'they'. My primary school English teacher would turn in her grave. 'They,' She shouts in my mind each time,… Continue reading The Pronoun Paradox: limitations of language in a non binary world