Xmas on the kink scene: the unwanted gift

These are the shadows of things that have been- that they are what they are, do not blame me ~Ghost of Christmas Past, The Muppets' Christmas Carol What is a bad Christmas gift on the kink scene? A marabou trimmed red mankini? A latex corset six sizes too big? Unfortunately there can be far worse… Continue reading Xmas on the kink scene: the unwanted gift

The Naked Interviews: Interview with a Porn Actor

there's a risk of demonizing certain kinds of porn and certain people, making wide generalizations and assumptions about the whole industry and the ethics of it, when really it's pretty complicated and diverse. But as a consumer, 'pay for your porn' is the most important thing.

Cougar bait: sorry ma’am, does your son have ID? Younger men with older women; why is it taboo?

beautiful red haired woman looks at the camera

'An older woman': Leopard print, red stilettos and a voracious sexual appetite manifest in the psyche. Why is there such stigma attached to an age gap?

All in a tangle? Rope and shibari wanted

I'm looking to do research on shibari, rope play and tying. If you live close to London and you have expertise, particularly as a rigger, but also as a rope bunny, or a strong interest, please message me as I would like to talk to you for this blog Xx

Broken doll: white knights, illusions and delusions

We look in the mirror after our world is shaken. We see a cracked, broken thing stare back. Unrecognisable. Lost. Altered. Unfixable.