I’ve talked about insights into the unicorn mind. I’ve given little tips, I’ve quoted some general strategy. Here is where I tell you how to take down the hard to capture unicorn. Executed correctly, it is ruthlessly effective. It is also, in its whole, though not necessarily its parts, very dishonest. This is the strategy for the couple who are all about the hunt. For whom the intellectual and primal challenge are the motivator, rather than necessarily the end product. It is completely unethical in its construction, yet if done right, everyone goes away happier than any other strategy I know of. Sorry, my unicorns, here is where I expose your Achilles’ heel.
Why would I do this? There are a few reasons. I’ve set out to teach you what I know, and I know this works. It is also already a strategy that is widely used, yet poorly pulled off. If you do it wrong, you will do people damage. So rather than have you blunder into it, I will tell you how to do it right. If we base ethics on outcomes, rather than actions, it is a virtuous strategy. I’ve had it tried on me many times, but poorly done. Done right, it will take down anything from a novice to an experienced and wary unicorn. Even me. There is another reason; I’m not always a very nice person. Not any more.
Let’s get evil.
To do this effectively, here is what you need:
You and your partner must be a relatively attractive heterosexual couple, who are both intent on this goal.
You and your partner must trust each other completely, and have a relationship in which your connection is not based primarily on sexual monogamy. This is important. If you think you can work around this step, it will all go disastrously wrong.
You need to temporarily hide your couples account and presence online.
You will need to make separate online accounts as singles. Feel free to block the single males from messaging, and even couples. They are not your targets. This is a focused hunt.
In your online profiles, you will have attractive pictures and you will need to cultivate some friends, verifications, etc. depending on the platform you are using, so you appear genuine and legit. This isn’t all that hard to do. You can even verify each other, yet you will need at least a few others to disguise this or you will rapidly be found out.
In your profile, talk about how you are looking to find someone to explore with and your interest in finding MFF. Say you are not after a one nighter, nor a relationship. Say you are looking for a partner in crime. Extol your personal virtues as you usually would.
Together, identify targets you both agree on.
Separately, message the same targets. Try to stagger it a bit. Talk to them and get to find out their situation, level of experience and what they are looking for. Key phrases that are useful to the male in finding a target are ‘single’, ‘looking for fun’, ‘bisexual’ and anything showing a wish to explore, an adventurous side or an indication that they might enjoy an intellectual challenge or the role of the predator, rather than prey. You are seeking the somewhat disillusioned yet hopeful. The single girl who is still on a sex site, yet gives a slight hint she might want something more. Red flags to avoid are ‘passion’, ‘intense’, or any hint that she is trying to set up a specific fantasy for herself or a relationship. You are not going to become their boyfriend. You do not want drama. This is more important than how they look.
The woman of the couple is going to take a slightly different approach. She is looking for a girl who is a little lonely or lost. Someone without a wide circle of friends on the scene. From the perspective of your female partner, the main thing she has to avoid is time-wasters and girls who are doing the same thing. If a target talks fairly quickly about having a threesome with a guy- she thinks she knows someone- cross her off your list. She’s trying to use the silver bullet on your girlfriend. There are a lot of these- perhaps 50% of the ‘single’ girls who will chat to her, maybe more. Girls who say they haven’t met yet, are shy, or just want to send loads of nudes are mainly fantasists who will never meet her.
Share what you learn about your targets with your partner and discuss extensively. You are a team, right? That’s the fun, right?
After chatting for a couple of days, arrange a meet. NOT both of you. Give no hint that there is a partner in the background. You both just say you have a few casual playmates, that you are looking for someone to explore with. Whoever is having the best luck with her arranges a meet. Go somewhere nice for a coffee or a drink. Make eye contact, smile, just be friendly. No sex. This is about bonding. After you’ve met, say she seemed really fun and different, and that you’d like to meet again. Try to arrange for about a week later.
At the second meeting, you go into what you are looking for sexually more. You flirt more. You may or may not have sex at the end of this date, depending on how it goes and the circumstances. You and your partner must be incomplete agreement that this is allowed. Have another date if you need to afterwards. The more the better, to a certain extent. When you talk, make yourself sound like a sexual explorer looking for a companion. Looking to be a team. Talk about how you are just setting out on this journey of exploration, and you need people in your life who will help you accomplish your goals, not hold you back. When you have sex, make it passionate and make it good. Focus on her needs. At this point you have bonded adequately to go to the next step. If it is your partner who has the sex, do not be resentful or distrusting. They are doing the work you have agreed on to achieve your mutual goal. If you try to skip this step, it will not work.
Now, you ramp up the threesome aspect with your unicorn, who will believe she is a) your female primary, if you are the man, or b) your close affectionate sexy female friend, if you are the woman. Talk about how great it was and how you really want to do this together. Now comes the beauty of the ruse- you make her hunt your partner. Talk about how fun it would be to do together. Ask her advice and opinions on how to find somebody. Ask her for her suggestions. At no point is she to know she is not the driving force in making this happen. By this point she will be set on impressing you with her skills and abilities in satisfying your threesome goal. After turning down her suggestions (gently, possibly after talking to them and saying you didn’t feel the vibe, she was so much sexier than any of them, etc.) introduce a little list of your own for her to consider. Pick a card, any card. But you are going to force her to choose the one you want. This requires time, patience, and delicate footwork. Perhaps the others are less attractive in their pictures. Or maybe one she takes a shine to is away for the next few months. You are going to be very careful in your description of your actual partner.
If you are the man, you are going to describe your partner as an old friend that you hardly ever see who is a good laugh. More like a sister, but she’s a bit of a wild one and she’s in town for the next couple of months. If you are the female, you are going to describe your partner as a hot guy you know- not boyfriend material but mellow and fun and always up for some sex.
By playing down the dynamic while extolling their suitability for the role of unicorn/male sex toy in your threesome, they become less of a threat to the bonding the unicorn perceives they have with you. You need to tread so softly- force too hard and the game is up. Next you give them all the power. Give them your partner’s details and say as you know them you don’t feel right in asking. Could your unicorn chat to them and see if they got on? Maybe suggest the threesome if they like each other? You are SURE they will fancy the unicorn- who wouldn’t? You are now operating as two singles chatting up the same unicorn. As far as the unicorn knows, she is entirely in the driving seat. You can toy with her and make her work to convince you both to do it! To an extent, the more you play hard to get the more she will push to make it happen- her self esteem and her sexual prowess are at stake. She doesn’t want to let you down. She wants to prove she can do this. She will enjoy the thrill of the hunt as much as you do.
When the three of you meet, remember to play down your connection to each other. Let the unicorn be in charge, and never make her feel left out. You and your partner secretly know you have pulled this off together by stealth, but she never will. Everyone goes home feeling powerful and clever. You never have sex solo with your unicorn again, but the three of you may be able to meet again. At this point, especially if the unicorn seems to be getting to like you, it is time to manage her involvement, unless you plan on becoming a poly triad (which can work, but that’s a whole different game. Your triad is based on dishonesty, which you won’t be able to hide forever). Perhaps you are called away to work overseas, or you decide you want to try a gay threesome, or something on your journey she can’t be a part of. She will be disappointed, if she has become attached, but she won’t feel bad about it. They key is to nip it in the bud at the appropriate time, and that is not something I can tell you how or when to do to avoid drama. Earlier rather than later is best- don’t let a sense of awkwardness or not wanting to hurt her feelings make it worse for her later. You owe her that much at least.
She may not become attached at all. Most people don’t, especially if you have managed her expectations throughout, without relying on that old fallback of romance and getting her daydreaming to achieve your goal. If you mess this part up, don’t blame me. The execution is all your doing. You want her to trust you and to have a threesome with you, not start to fall in love with either of you. If you resort to those tactics, whether male or female, you are being a dick. Ideally, you want this to be a part of her journey, which she sees herself moving on and developing from, without either of you. If you have manipulated her in the right way throughout, she will exit as smoothly as she entered. She will view herself as a hunter- a skilled, sexy woman who has achieved her goal. Only you and your partner know differently. This is a bonding secret the two of you must take to the grave. Say what you like about love and sex, there is no intimacy like a shared dark secret. Especially not monogamy.
Congratulations, you are both now terrifyingly effective predators.